Are You a Lifeline?


A690CD34-394F-46E1-98C2-9B10834C049FIf you are reading this and in a position of helping others, THANK YOU.4BB561D0-8720-4E56-BE64-44501EBB811F

I cannot imagine the whole education timetable and training involved that goes behind your degrees but what I have researched, out of curiosity, I am totally amazed.

Knowing from my own personal experience with my counselor the past four years, I am and have been so thankful with what light she has shed upon my life and to help me understand the confusion, pain and chaos within that I did not understand.   Adult problems are childhood issues, a quote I have heard many times.  True.

I cannot imagine where I would be if it had not been for her.  I will never be able to thank her enough, or God for leading me to her at a time when I had no hope.

Being under her care, I have been taught, I have learned, I have done my own research and healing has taken place in my life. I am not the same person as I was when I walked through her door the very first time, thankfully.  While I still have much to learn, grow and heal, I know it is a process.  I give myself grace.

So, perhaps you feel overwhelmed and exhausted at times from listening to your clients, session after session of their visible and hidden pain, calming their fears, giving them ways to work through areas at hand and the list can go on and on and understandably so, but your own self-care is warranted and not to be overlooked.  Through each session with each client, know that you just might be their only lifeline.


Christmas Crap

Just the title alone explains my feelings.  While I love Christmas, the lights, the joy it brings and everything that exemplifies the season, I just don’t have it in me to participate here in my home.

Here it is, December 8 and my house does not show any signs of life in regard to Christmas.  Not even the cute Christmas pillow my sister made me months ago that is stuck in my hall closet.  It was too early to put out when received and now my house needs cleaning to put out now.

The task of cleaning, pulling out the Christmas crap from the attic just adds to my overwhelming thoughts of just one more thing to do, many things, and then the clean up.084512EE-04E3-481E-BDA3-C5834F68731A

I feel like the Grinch although I am excited, too.  What gives?

As I put myself in timeout today for having an ‘I don’t want to’ attitude and telling my poor, old dog lying in the floor listening to me, I decided to take a nap.  Let me procrastinate some more.

So here I am.  Maybe my get and go will get it done.  Too much happening in life and in all areas plus this adds to it; but I know the end results will be family together, laughter, love and joy. I want that.

So to all, I wish you a Merry Christmas and a good night.